Family of 20-year-old busboy killed in Borderline shooting reflects 1 year later
THOUSAND OAKS, Calif. (KABC) -- As we look back on the first year since the mass shooting at the Borderline Bar and Grill in Thousand Oaks, we're hearing from the family of the busboy who was among those killed.
Theresa Ramirez was woken up by a phone call from a friend last November. She turned on the television was immediately concerned about her son, 20-year-old Mark Meza.
"When I realized it happened at 11 something and he hadn't called me and it was already 1:30 in the morning, I knew something was wrong. I knew there was something not right," Ramirez said.
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Mark's family says he was creative and had just found his passion with art, photography and making music.
Ramirez said the past year has been incredibly difficult.
"When we're talking about something and you're talking about a certain time period, it's hard to say 'Oh, that was before Marky passed.' That's very difficult for me to say because he didn't just pass away, you know, and it's very hard for me to say 'That's before he was taken.' I don't know how to say it."
Meza's mother has been dreading the one year anniversary of the shooting, adding that being with other families who have also lost loved one compounds the pain and the scope of what happened.
Most of all, she said that she's sad her son wasn't able to live out his dreams as he was just coming out of shell, nearing his 21st birthday, and becoming a man.
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